The Generalities.
I think the main question with End-times marriage is does GOD even trust you with one? If GOD has ordained for you to get married in these times then I “trowe salute” for you because to think that it’s easy is like underestimating climbing Everest. You deh crase? Have you seen the world? Have you seen the Church?! There is no doubt that in my parents day of marriage men’s hearts hadn’t quite drifted as far away from GOD as they have today. Many people don kolo, and if you don’t think that this is the case then sorry for you. A reprobate mind is one that can no longer differentiate between good and evil. This is what madness is to GOD and this only happens when He finally leaves you to yourself. The prayer “may GOD never leave you to yourself” is probably the kindest a person can pray for you because the last time I checked you fit deceive yourself oh. For instance if we ask the devil today what made you think those infamous but futile “I will” thoughts? he’d probably say his mind, but was he right to think them? Nope. Is is suffering now and forever for them? Yup. Today just as infamous is the record of his wrong thoughts is the documentation of his prophesied eternal death. If a prophet talks about you there may still be hope, when GOD Himself prophesied about you, there is no running, there is no hiding, there is only being because GOD watches over His word to perform it. Of course this is only all perfectly understandable if you somehow manage grasp the concept of GOD’s sovereignty.
You see, marriage being the first institution established by GOD (yes even before the church) is unsurprisingly the single most attacked by mr satan. Why? he can’t help himself. I myself is (as ve stated repeatedly) very excited about marriage. What could be better than pissing the devil off by having the fantastic marriage GOD had planned for all of us the whole time from the very beginning. Not kindov like if but exactly it. Noyce. Just imagine marrying the exact person GOD wants you to (yes there is such a thing) because why wouldn’t your Father who knows all the best things have an opinion on who you should marry? This isn’t your earthly father with his limited vision we’re talking about GOD. Anyway, choose what you want to believe as you have the relationship you bother to have with Him. As for me, if can ask my earthly father to choose a husband for me I will much my trust GOD my Heavenly Father to do so for me. Imagine living the exact life he conceptualized before he made you. Doing the right things at the right time in the right ways with the right people at the right times for the right reasons. Imagine the rewards for THAT. Count me in, there is nowhere I wouldn’t go with the man who GOD picked for me who has come into ownership of such clarity of vision for The LORD.
The End-time Bride.
Hmm, Turns out this babe is going to need to be more warrior looking than dressed as a bride should. There has always been wars for the souls of men but in this time the antes have definitely been upped. It would be rather dumb for us female sons of GOD to pretend like this isn’t the case wouldn’t it? I can think of few things more hostile and worth fighting than a person who is actively working against GOD’s purpose for my life and family. I actually don’t know if I wouldn’t kill for this reason you know. Well news flash, there is an enemy with recruits, children, unwitting volunteers and strategies to fight to kill, steal and destroy GOD’s work in, for and with you so what are you going to do about it?
You cannot claim to know your enemy if you don’t know how he fights. I know how the devil fights and it can never be clean. Now remember, he likes to look like he’s clean though, it is absolutely important to him, he just woefully fails (like clockwork) at actually being clean to the seeing eye. To him and his people looks matter more than truth so don’t watch the “headlines” and highlight reels, watch them and always compare them to scripture. This way you might not even need to say anything for them to know that you know (regardless of who they’ve managed to fool) that you KNOW who they are and they can never deceive you.
It’s important that you coach your enemy into understanding this because once they do, they drop the act and trying to save face of course, they start “trying to be real”. As a child of GOD, just sip your champagne and nod with a smile and think “Welcome to the chat”. I have only one advice, let The Holy Spirit prepare and train you. That’s it. Without Him?!…
The End-time Groom.
Not gonna lie, the devil has a love-hate relationship with you. he hates you yes especially the position GOD first gave and then returned to you in Christ yet the dude also needs you at the same time. This is because GOD’s word cannot be broken. Man is given dominion so, god as he may be (on current earth) he will always need the buy-in of man. What are his options then? Well, his best and favorite strategy is to subtly (or overtly) weaponize you and or your people against GOD’s purpose for your life. It’s like this, your eternal rewards in GOD are tied to your fulfillment of HIS purpose for your life now on earth. It’s simple really, you have a Creator and He had a reason for creating you. Have you even bothered to find it out? your purpose? if not what else is so damned important that you’ve been spending your life doing other than that? Remember, satan knows that rewards are a thing in the world that will exist without him in it and he understands that the consequences of your BEMA “placement” are eternal (as in forever) so to him, if he can’t stop you from getting into Heaven at least limiting your rewards is a worthy legacy and counted as a win for him.
satan (especially in this hour) has got enough recruits to screw you over if you choose to live carelessly and reject the daily ministry of The Holy Spirit in the believer’s life. What you inevitably end up as is a spiritually blind and deaf individual wallowing in foolishness. Again I’m not gonna lie (in this state?! you are essentially what is known as a real life zombie). Alive but essentially dead. Think about it, what does a zombie do? It lives unconsciously only to uncontrollably thirst and hunger and actively participate in the creation of more zombies. Without rhyme or reason it just wants to bite and convert for the sake of it. It doesn’t want to die alone. That sounds almost like the devil doesn’t it? That’s because if you allow yourself to regress into the spiritual zombie state, you’re basically are a son or daughter of satan.
“Make the heart of this people dull,
And their ears heavy,
And shut their eyes;
Lest they see with their eyes,
And hear with their ears,
And understand with their heart,
And return and be healed.”“Hear this now, O foolish people,
Without [a]understanding,
Who have eyes and see not,
And who have ears and hear not:”“Son of man, you dwell in the midst of a rebellious house, which has eyes to see but does not see, and ears to hear but does not hear; for they are a rebellious house.”
“For the hearts of this people have grown dull.
Their ears are hard of hearing,
And their eyes they have closed,
Lest they should see with their eyes and hear with their ears,
Lest they should understand with their hearts and turn,
So that I [a]should heal them.”“God has given them a spirit of stupor,
Bible quotes from – Isaiah 6:10, Jeremiah 5:21, Ezekiel 12:2, Matthew 13:15 & Romans 11:8.
Eyes that they should not see
And ears that they should not hear,
To this very day.”
Ouch. That last one? stupor means “a state of near-unconsciousness or insensibility.” You mean like a zombie? Note that GOD gave it to them btw? There is a way you will choose to live your life that the inevitable consequence is that GOD will allow you to exist in this state of unconsciousness where you seem alive and present but you are barely here. A reprobate mind triggered by your rebellion against GOD will earn you a spirit of stupor. Keep rebelling against God and you’ll soon find out. Although, In that unconscious zombie state, the implication is much worse, you can’t even find out. You’re essentially stuck never being able to find out that you’re already gone.
How can you know GOD and claim to be His son and not walk in His power or exhibit any part of His trademarked fruit? That’s impossible. So, are you a fake son of GOD then? Anyone can claim anything but the Bible says by their fruit you will know them. There are many fake children of GOD waltzing about especially now, I watch some people sometimes and I can tell that they actually think that they belong to GOD. That’s that crowd that would dare to say dumb shit at the Great White Throne Judgment like “we cast out demons in your name” I’m thinking did you hear that last part of your foolish statement? you said in His name, OF COURSE the demons left! what? you took that as a signal of your power and alignment? Dummy. That’s a full blown dummy.
For THIS groom? Let’s just say that if you thought Adam had his work cut out for him, imagine yours. Imagine having to be head (and this is why I can never envy a male) GOD? has positioned YOU? to be accountable to HIM? for not just yourself but others who you birth?! Yo THAT’s a level of responsibility that a woman may pretend to have but may never understand. It is not written about me anywhere in scripture by reason of the genitalia assigned to me at birth that I am responsible for a household. That’s a man’s burden to carry in this world. My job description is helper, a helper is not the leader. I have no problems whatsoever with the role, position, gender and genitalia assigned to me by GOD. I fully accept my role as helper suitable for one specific male, and I will do my role as wife to be best of my ability in GOD. That will be my focus so if you see me do amazing things make sure to attribute that to the Holy Spirit because I depend on Him daily for EVERYTHING.
While I don’t envy the man they are enviable. The devil for instance envies you to bits. Do you know the entity satan envies the most? Check out the specks of the only person he ever bothered to tempt by himself in The Bible, like as himself not some animal. Male and fully submitted to GOD are on the list of His attributes. Like all trauma victims if you even remind him of that slam dunk moment at Jesus’s cross which he never saw coming, he will be pretty triggered so you must brace yourself for his attacks. Sometimes his attacks involve more lulling you than fighting you but regardless of the strategy used they are attacks non the less. The answer remains the same “Submit yourself to GOD, resist the devil and he will flee from you”. Somehow when a man is functioning as a Son of GOD on the earth he will start to trigger his PTSD of satan by reminding him of JESUS.
You sir, will need to be strong. Isn’t it curious that being strong is actually a command by GOD? It’s almost like GOD expects you to be able to be it otherwise He wouldn’t have told you to. “Be strong in The LORD and in the power of His might” You will need to put on and keep on the whole armor of GOD always AND also guide you home to do the same. Look men, I get why the men of the world have given up on trying to be men but you are not a man of the world. You are the appointed leader of you particular squad, God has given you a lot of responsibility and He expects results. There’s a lot of pressure that comes with your position but thankfully He hasn’t left you alone. You will have the help of God The Holy Spirit in your life as much or as little as you decide to lean in and receive. It will be hard but having the maker of everything on your squad must make your yoke tons lighter than the guy trying to do life without him. Lastly, stay focused! Don’t be so easily swayed to the left or the right. Once you learn what GOD’s plan is stay constantly connected to Him so that yo-yo are able to hear his game plays and stay the course. Kill distractions I don’t care how “fun” they are what is the opportunity cost? One wrong move from you can mean life or death for your family (squad). You are what is called the MVP, If you’re taken out? It’s game over. Like chess. Only hope then would be if you’ve actually managed to raise your children to also be Children of GOD, in which case, “new level unlocked”. 🙂
The End-time Friends and Families Of Marriages.
Thou shalt face thy front. You no get your own fight abi? Basically, we should all prepare our hearts to be loved but never worshiped. You no be GOD. We owe no one anything except love so we pay it and focus on our businesses with GOD. We all have our own primary assignments, to abandon the matter of your own squad and go and be poking around on other’s assigned spaces is both dumb and evil. Only witches would want their own way in a conversation where we’re talking about the sovereign Will of GOD. I heard something profound spoken by the late Dr Miles Munroe recently, he said, “marriage is not the joining together of two families it’s the creation of a third one” I quote that because even so called Christians seem to struggle with honoring the boundaries set by GOD for each of us and our assigned squads in this area. Just FYI if you ever find yourself fighting GOD on any issue, then you’re a witch, it’s really not that complicated to God. “For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry. Because thou hast rejected the word of the Lord”. I’d advise you though, this is one of the most guaranteed ways to get killed by GOD. No wonder He so casually asked people over and over not to suffer y’all to live. Before fighting anything or anyone, find out where they’re standing first. If it’s in the Will of GOD you better back off unless you’re literally suicidal, in which case, “rest in peace.” Children of GOD don’t fight God’s agenda because obedience and surrender is at the very heart of our qualification as sons of God. “Although we are saved by Grace through the redemptive work of the cross and by the blood of Jesus; It is our obedience that sets us apart as authentic children of God. Obedience is our way of showing God that we love Him; and it is through our obedience that God recognizes us and enables us to enjoy His Love”. So if I watch and observe that you’re fighting the Will of GOD in my life then what you are is the enemy.
Everyone needs to stand back, focus on GOD’s plan for THEIR OWN LIVES and only pitch in and bud in wherever God directs you to in someone else’s story. Honestly, with all that’s going on in the world right now how people have the time and bandwidth to be focused of the happenings in other people’s lives whilst being completely ignorant on GOD’s agendas for theirs is baffling. So, you don’t know GOD’s reasons for putting you on the earth yet you’ve somehow made time to meddle in other people’s journeys with GOD. Make that make sense. May I remind you humbly tonight that your judgment will in fact be your entirely your own. No parent, no friend, no association, no colleague, no sibling no relative or acquaintance will stand with, beside or near you on that day in that moment. May it not be too late for you when you finally learn that for this life, Na only you waka come and na only you go answer GOD for am.
The Wrap-up
When our foundation is Christ we cannot be moved, war or no war. Marriage in war times always has a different vibe to it. Our swords are never far away and neither are our guns. We are on high alert and aren’t really bothered with petty things. Suddenly all of our resources must be focused on survival and storing up for the brighter days guaranteed only in Christ. For now though, we fight. Anyone who is beside you who isn’t for you is against you. There is no neutral ground. To be neutral in this particular war is what our Master calls being lukewarm. Yeah, He don’t like that group much. Yikes being spat out by GOD sounds like it will hurt, I should know I used to be one of them. No one can afford neutrality in these time. You’re either for us or against us. Anyone who actively works against the fulfillment of GOD’s will in your life is not your friend, that’s an agent of (and strategically planted by) satan. No matter how nice a person looks and sounds, don’t fall for it. I don’t care how much you like me, who sent you and where are you trying to influence me to? Heaven or Hell? Who’s agenda are you here to peddle and push? What’s that? Not GOD’s? well bye bye. It is that simple, it’s not complicated at all in my mind. How can we be sure this is right? Look how Jesus handled a friend “innocently” pushing an anti God agenda on Him. Do you know what took Peter in the Bible from being told by Jesus “flesh and blood didn’t reveal that to you” to “get behind me Satan” real quick? It was whose Will he was standing in and influencing is “friend” Jesus into believing and obeying. What this means of course is that human beings (as vessels) can be used by anyone. Who is using your friend right now? Who is actually talking to you? what do they want you to do? And why? Is that GOD’s will their speaking? Theirs? or the devil’s? Better find ouuuut.
So for example GOD says go left, (in Jesus’s case GOD said you will go to Jerusalem and you will be killed there) but your “friend” says go right, “guy, can’t you see that obvious gully right up ahead?” Sounds good, loving in fact and then (unlike Jesus who called out his friend and stuck to GOD’s will) you actually obey said friend above God. 🙂 Well done, so you now both see better than God abi? Ok, Well, how bout that giant pool of burning lava further up ahead on the foolish path you have taken? trying to avoid little inconveniences whist looking for a painless existence? What’s you plan for that? You didn’t see it coming? No way! It’s almost like GOD saw it coming and tried to steer you away from it but you thought you and your buddy were smarter than Him. Seriously though, People have lost their lives doing just what I’ve described. I know some. Listening to people above God is just universally ALWAYS a bad idea. Truth is, the pain averse, people prioritizing Christian (although Heaven bound) is in for a lifetime of dodging obvious needles and running into hidden swords because you refuse to let HQ be your eyes, and ears and entire source of intel. So you’ll be walking around without authority because the authority of GOD is embedded in His word to you but you’ve ignored it. You’re s powerless Child of Heaven who ironically has been given access to ALL POWER IN HEAVEN AND ON EARTH, you have even been given authority over all the power of the enemy, right there available to you at your fingertips but you’ll never walk in it because you have chosen to handicap yourself. You “Zombie-fied” yourself and surrounded yourself with other zombies (Christian or not). If you trust the leading of the “guys beside you”, just know and understand that all of your combined visions and insights and calculated guesses on life are nothing compared to the wisdom of The Holy Spirit, just FYI. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths.” You need to commit especially as the leaders of your family squad with literal destinies hinging on you to TRUST GOD COMPLETELY. There is precisely no one anywhere who can give you the intel you need to succeed at living like God can but He cannot lead your Unit through you where you will not follow. When you reject God’s leadership, you needlessly suffer. There’s enough necessary pain in the world no need to add the useless ones. Just follow GOD the first time.
After Christ, Abraham is the most impressive example of obedience I see narrated in scripture. Many times you’d read “and GOD said to Abraham…” the very next few statements are guaranteed to include “and Abraham obeyed or did as GOD said” The man didn’t leave room or gaps in his timeline of obedience, he hears God, he rises and does it, that’s it. Noah is another person who impresses me in this area, imagine building something called an ark in a time where it had never rained before and having to constantly warn people of impending death without said ark for 150 years! and all you have as proof is “GOD said”. Now, That’s what is called a faith full man. Delayed obedience is disobedience. I recently learned this will hearing about the Will of GOD, it is fascinating and comforting and yet humbling and terrifying. The Will of GOD, one of my teachers says is like a River. You can cup from it or dive it but either way it’s going where it’s going. Problem is most people want to cup but not dive in. God prefers this divers who want to go where His Will is already going. A solder of a king carries the authority of said king wherever he goes. A soldier who is a wall, soldier as he may still be is on his own. What kind of soldier do you want to be? One with the backing of The King or one without. You’re easy to take out when you’re without your Ruler’s authority. Some of you have know for years what GOD wants you to do but have chosen rebellion and encouraged others to join you in said rebellion, do us all a favor, stop calling yourself a child of GOD whilst practicing witchcraft. (Again, see scripture above)
If we’ve learned anything from the life of Jesus is that sometimes suffering is the chosen method of GOD to bring you into His purpose for you. People don’t like this part, nobody does but I pray you embrace GOD’s ways and His methods no matter where they lead. You must trust your Shepherd, there is no other way and you must do it together. Fight together for GOD and not against each other. Hebrews 12:2 “looking unto Jesus the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising shame, and hath sat down at the right hand of the throne of God” Remember, without Jesus on the cross in pain and shame there is no Jesus on the throne in power and glory. God knew that so He lovingly (understanding more than anyone the hurt that was to come) insisted on the cross. On our own journeys may we not assume that all pain is to be avoided and get to Gethsemane heart posture of “Father, if it is possible, let this cup (of suffering) pass from me but nevertheless, not my will but Yours be done”. THAT is the heart posture of Sons. Beware of the trap of constantly leaning towards comfort. Sometimes the right path is the painful one. For the joy of the glory up ahead, endure your own cross. Thank GOD that in marriage there’s two of us to do it. A purpose less Christian stand outside the Will of GOD is easier to kill. A man on assignment from God is hard to kill unless GOD wants him dead. (Like Jesus and Paul) A purposeful Christian standing in the Will of GOD cannot be stopped because the entire universe understands you carry the seal of The KING. Now imagine two purposeful Christians working together for The KING and that ladies and gentlemen is satan’s biggest fear and the main threat to the works of his permitted hands. That is why he comes at marriage so hard. Dude didn’t panic in the garden until Adam got married.
The grooms (as leaders) and brides (as helpers suitable) in these marriages in of this era of God’s Kingdom are going to have no option but to Fight daily for the oneness of said marriages, strive to constantly remain focused on God’s Will for their own units and above all STAY SURRENDERED TO GOD. These three things cannot be overstressed. Without GOD in these times you are irrevocably unequivocally doomed. It is also wiser to surround your union with other wise people who have and are committed to staying surrendered to God with you. What is GOD’s purpose for your union? Find it, do it and lean on GOD every step of the way not on each other and definitely not on people. For two are better than one, they will have a good reward for their labor. If you remember nothing else from this post remember this, the end time marriage has a specific purpose in the heart of YHWH. It cannot be faked, it cannot be substituted and it will not be upended. God bless you.
Hint Hint: GOD wants more children of GOD on earth not just more people.
