“It just complicates your journey. Let your obedience be complete so you can rest. It’s good for him too.
The LORD had said to Abram, “Leave your country, your people and your father’s household and go to the land I will show you. “I will make you into a great nation and I will bless you; I will make your name great, and you will be a blessing.
Accepting God singling you out for a task is not selfish pride it’s obedient wisdom”.
It’s actually cocky to assume that GOD doesn’t have a separate plan for him. Lots story ready like someone who’s just aimlessly tagged along someone else’s life. Wasted living. I’ve been there before.