“There‘s A Weird Link Between Having Ain’t Shit Parents & Evil Earthly Success. Funny How It Seems Having These Kinds Of Parents Is Practically THE Requirement For A Certain Kind Of Fame & Wealth.
Sigh, honestly, where should one begin with talking about this sad sad lot known as ain’t shit parents. It takes a special kind of messed to be one of these people. Typically, they are selfish, materialistic, care about clout and appearance, view their children as resource, mere means to an end. While being obsessed with wealth and fame often haven not been able to achieve it themselves, they possess incredible selective blindness, (especially to sins) and are allergic to telling truth and have conveniently fain amnesia. They naturally lack integrity and compromise their morals raining sweet (non confrontational) empty platitudes at the faintest sign or in the presence of any with any modicum of money and or fame. Sometimes they are actively involved in darkness and don’t want to go to hell alone so they intentionally work towards taking their offspring with them. This lot often care more about being considered cool by their children and their peers than about the eternal reality of life as we know it. Their children are means of escape usually from poverty and obscurity and have no qualms whatsoever allowing the child become the breadwinner regardless of what sinful practices the child needs to do to gain said wealth and notoriety.
This is in no way an exhaustive list but that is the surface level description of an ain’t shit parent. An in-depth description would probably reveal a narcissist stuck in a reprobate state. They basically applaud their offsprings right on into eternal damnation in exchange for a nice life. These people know the evils their children do, understand that the child is headed to hell but sits pretty, playing dumb and cheering on the child unto death. Note that this isn’t even about them being poor or wealthy. Some of the most greedy and money hungry people you’ll ever meet are those who already have money .
Who knows what goes on the the heads of these types? Sometimes they just want clout, they want to be affiliate with rich and famous people you know a wanting a ‘classy circle’. Some simply crave attention and the influence that comes from celebrity. Pride, and chasing ego boosts, wanting the family name I’d be ‘out there’ so everyone knows them as so and so’s mother or father, as if that’s what should be their PRIORITY!.
There are lots of reason why these sickos believe and and parent as they do. Bottom line? The present and temporal benefits/perks from the ungodly lifestyles they encourage their children to live or choose to ignore by faking ignorance while knowing the consequences are blinding and stopping them from protecting their offspring from the impending, future, permanent (not just suffering) but literal torture that is basically guaranteed on said children as a consequence of those lifestyles.
Asking their children for money not even caring to know wether the pressures of their requests and dependence has pushed the children into doing diabolical things is basically these people’s mode of operation. Even if they know the difference between right and wrong they’ll pretend to be blind. These one are obsessed with ‘class’ to the point of being comfortable scapegoating their child to go to hell for everyone in the family. Yes she’s a slut they think, but at least her siblings are eating. Yes this son murders people for a living and he’s definitely going to hell, but wellll least said parent gets to have a nice car and lives in a good house in a nice neighborhood fully paid for (don’t forget the neighborhood). What does it matter if their child is hell bound? It’s only for eternity.
Hm, you see these types of greedy, selfish, demonic parents some of y’all have? you better ex them. Oiii Honey that’s so harsh and umbilical… is it? First, GOD said in His Bible ‘children, obey your parents IN THE LORD, for this is right’ not unconditionally or blindly obey. He made sure to qualify and give context for your obedience. Remember what I said about the word of God in this blog? That scripture also means ‘children Do NOT obey your parents who and Outside of The LORD because they are wrong. Once a parent steps out of being ‘in The Lord’ on anything? they forfeit their right to be obeyed. Second, note that HONORING your father and mother is not the same as obeying them. Honoring a a command without the condition of their standing in God. Just by reason of their birthing you, these entitled to your honor. Obedience however is conditional. Yup your read that right. Obeying your mother and father is dependent on wether or not they are standing in YAHWH as in in alignment with His Word, His Will and His counsel in whatever it is they are instructing you to do. Honey didn’t say that. GOD did. So don’t be shocked, Mother, or Father, if I outright reject any instructions you give me outside of God’s Word. Matter of fact, to make it easier for everyone and a more seamless process overall, how bout BEFORE you give me any instructions YOUUU check to see if it’s aliingws with GOD first. And then tell me. How’s that? Imagine dying and standing before God like ‘LORD, I was a whore because my mother told me to be a whore’ and He hits you with a ‘ well I never told your mother it was ok to be a whore. In fact I specifically told her the opposite’. Then you say ‘I didn’t know’ and He concludes with ‘your heart knew’.
I may never be able to fully express how it was to have the parents God gave me to anyone. You don’t know how grateful I am to GOD for the parents he gave me. Those two people are till date some of my biggest blessings God ever gave me. I don’t care if I had even only had them for a day and a half. Those two would never ever given me instructions that are unaligned with God ever. If they ever had they would have beeen disappointed is I didn’t disobey them. They practically raised me to disagree respectfully and disobey them outright lay on anything that was out of sync with The Word of GOD. You don’t know what a joy and peace it is to have Parents whose nature bent is prioritizing God. Whose God-centeredness could be trusted. Who’s morals, characters and motives you never had to question wether it was in alignment with God’s word or not. I will forever remain grateful for the gift that was parents.
Strange isn’t it though? A parent applauding thier child’s debauchery in exchange for money. Talking bout ‘I’m his or her biggest fan’, sir, ma’am where are they going? Have you even bothered to ask that? or are them checks and stacks and private jet trips you’re getting from him kinda, sorta, maybe blinding your vision a tad bit? Least enough for you to overlook is obvious sinful bulls**t that you KNOW better than to even imagine God will not punish him for? We’re not talking about the kids who bribe their parent with money to hush and turn a blind eye to the atrocities they commit cus they exit. For now we’re talking about the parents who obviously ain’t shit. This lot of people would be shocked to hear that one’s primary assignment once they’ve contributed to birthing a child is NOT to kiss their ass. You’re to guide them. SPECIFICALLY in The LORD.
Let’s forget those enabling sibling who are currently yassss queening their sibling into a lava lake named after fire for money and clout right quick and just focus on this despicable sect of horrible parents for a second. I hope you know that pushing your child into fame and fortune at the cost of their would is YOUR ticket to hell? I’m done talking to you.
To the ones currently committing abominations and heaping iniquities on their hands, hearts, souls and bloodlines in the name of helping their families to survive? Let’s g’ahead and cut out the entirety of the bull**** right quick. 1) understand now that if you dropped dead today they will carry on and survive some how in your absence. Don’t allow anyone corner you into carrying weight that’s either theirs to bear as the only ones who had sex to procreate you and your siblings or just plain belongs to God. God is the one who is source and sustainer. They are to run to him not you. Do everything in your power prayerfully to teach and train those around you to run to God and not you. 2)God never asked any of us to messiah our families. Don’t be their super man or woman, Jesus already did that. If they reject Him, that’s on them. Don’t allow any greedy, lazy or selfish parent pawn their responsibilities unto you. It’s pressure you’re not built to carry and will definitely buckle under. You didn’t give birth to them and their children, they did. So they should turn to God and figure out how to provide for their family together.
There’s a difference between contributing to your parents household and become the bread winner all together. This is especially wrong at a young age when you should be building and working towards supporting your own family. It is literally abuse. That said, be content with whatever levels of comfort they can provide in the meantime combines with your contributions while you diligently work toward building righteously preferably with your own partner with whose you make your own family. I can blame your no shit parent right now but you sure can’t blame them when you’re standing there on your own that day. No one can blame another person for their results. It is an individual race. Non will stand with or for you and non can be judged with you. ‘They made me do it’ ain’t gone cut it. Not for your father, mother, sibling, friend NO BODY. You’ll be all on your own. Not the guy to the left to the chic to the right. You and GOD for the duration of your sentencing, that’s it.
That’s why Jesus strongly advises each of us to work out our own individual salvations with fear and trembling and He then goes as far as controversially suggesting that it’s better to literally maim your body if it stands in the way of you escaping the hellish experience that is Hell. I hope you know that the Person warning you so sternly about hell is the One who made said Hell. Remember He’s already said clearly so there is no misunderstanding HE DID NOT MAKE IT FOR YOU but you are free to exercise your right to choose to go there if you so decide. Better not go to hell for anyone. Exceptions are not made for those who go there as family representatives or sacrificial lambs. As I said, Jesus already did that. That’s considered love that is foolish rebellion to God. Accept Jesus and carefully live the life He has planned for you, encourage your family to do the same. Especially that ain’t shit parent.
You know how I think about this thing for real? I view Jesus like the older brother who comes all the way to give us the cheat sheets of life. Only the wise Will peep game and accept His expo. Dyu know how wild thing is? Judgment day is so scary and mysterious that GOD didn’t even bother telling us in the Bible where the venue would be. That’s 1?, 2!, there’s a high chance that satan would already have been tossed into the lake of fire BEFORE this Great White Throne Judgement even happens at the undisclosed location. Soooo, you can’t blame anything on him either. Honey what do you mean we don’t know the location? How’s that even possible? Glad you asked. Well, according to scripture, it’s not holding in Heaven and it’s not on earth. In fact heaven and earth would have already ‘passed away’ by the time it happens. So where’s the venue sway? I donno 🤷🏽♀️ Y’all research the Bible and lemme know what you find if you find it.
To wrap this all up nicely with a pretty polka dot bow on top, here am I final statements. If the standard of living of those around you require damning your soul and ending up in hell, change them or remove yourself right away. If those around you are too blinded by the benefits of your wealth or fame to their lives and prove themselves to be too compromised or star stuck to give you righteous council of anything, mark them and avoid seeking their advice on everything. You can love a person while avoiding their recommendations because you know better than to trust it. Even if you listen to their advice out of love or honor, accepting and obeying it is another thing entirely.May GOD give you all wisdom be alert to the ways you let people gaslight or gas you up that are ultimately leading you to hell.”
PS. Once you’re in hell, your next habitat is the lake of fire. There’s no escaping it. I’m done talking bout this.